kickstand or sidestand

I've seen a few threads for the newer bikes, but not the pre-'09's... So, the problem is, I'm short, and the bike is tall. The crazy kickstand swings up if I lean the bike slightly to the right, and I don't trust it to hold my weight, so getting on and off this thing is a major chore. I've...

Today I had my bike sitting on my lawn and the sidestand dug into a soft spot and the bike fell. The aluminum sidestand was tweaked and cracked around the bolt. Now I need a new sidestand. What do you recommend? Trailtech? Promoto billet? ??? TIA